Oh Noooo She Did nt.

Ive seen and heard the craziest most ridiculous things here in college but what really gets me is how I look at cheaters. Crazy that months ago and even years ago I was totally anti-cheater and homewrecker. But just after a couple of months here.. I realized that there is so much more to a person than their mistakes. My friend here is technically considered both a cheater and a homewrecker, but its effing crazy, cause she’s such an amazing person. Smart, independent, loving and mostly inspiring, I can’t believe what she did. But after having a heart to heart with her, I look at cheaters and homewreckers in a completely different way. 

Everyone is so used to the whole “Cheaters and Homewreckers” are stupid as fuck. Don’t they understand that bleh bleh bleh.. But really most people neglect the other facts surrounding the situation. I know being unloyal and such is something to look down upon, but I really think cheating, at our age is okay. 

omg, haha i can’t believe I typed that, but it’s true. We’re so young and feelings get mixed up when meeting all these new people. Even though this is what I believe I’m not gonna go straight up and not feel guilty if I ever cheat. I’m just saying cheating shouldn’t be a main reason why a couple breaks up. I know PLENTY of people who think that if you cheat, the relationship is DONEZO. but honestly, continuing to love someone shouldnt be based on one mistake. I have no idea what it should be based on, but I know that if there was definitely deep loving going on, cheating wouldn’t be the end of it all. BUT there are a lot of exceptions, one of which is cheating multiple times or cheating on purpose. Those are definite No-No’s. I feel like the real love which I think should be reached before marriage, is the “unconditional” love. The love that even after you stink (literally) or even after you cheat, makes everything okay. I think this love is the greatest love a person and any couple can feel. It takes time, effort, and experience to reach this stage but I know that any relationship, worth while, can get there. 

ALSO these people could be the nicest people in the world. Things just get complicated and so do feelings. It happens. But when it does, there’s definitely a test to see whether or not you truly love each other. MAN how controversial this topic is. Taking a stance is pretty hard just because this type-a stuff really messes with our hearts (emotionally) but I’m guessing thats just how love and relationships work! 

BTW hope everyone is enjoying school, and if not school, work! Thanksgiving and Christmas is just around the corner! Don’t forget to be grateful and take time out of your day to appreciate someone and God. (=